
The Elevator Already Heard You.
So why did you press the button again?
Yesterday I caught myself doing something I've probably done hundreds of times.
I pressed the elevator button.
It lit up.
And then...
I pressed it again.
For a split second, I just stood there thinking.
Who was I pressing it for?
The elevator?
Or myself?
The light had already turned on.
That was the system's way of saying,
"I've got your request."
Nothing about pressing it again could make the elevator arrive faster.
I knew that.
Yet my finger pressed it anyway.
I started watching other people.
Almost everyone did the same thing.
Some people pressed it twice.
Some kept pressing until the doors opened.
Not because the button wasn't working.
Because waiting feels strangely uncomfortable when we've got nothing left to do.
That's when it clicked.
We don't press the button a second time because we think it changes the system.
We press it because it changes us.
For a tiny moment...
it feels like we're doing something.
I think this happens everywhere.
We refresh our email even though it refreshed ten seconds ago.
We pull down Instagram hoping something new appears.
We click "Track Order" three times in a row.
Not because the system forgot.
Because uncertainty makes us crave action.
Even pointless action feels better than waiting.
The interesting part isn't the button.
It's what the button reveals about people.
When we don't know what's happening...
we'd rather feel busy than feel uncertain.
Maybe that's why good products don't just respond quickly.
They acknowledge us immediately.
The light on the elevator button.
The tiny checkmark in WhatsApp.
The spinning loader on a webpage.
None of them finish the task.
They simply tell us,
"I heard you."
Sometimes that's all we needed.
The next time you press an elevator button...
Watch your hand.
If you feel the urge to press it again...
Ask yourself one question.
Am I trying to speed up the elevator...
Or shorten the feeling of waiting?
The answer probably has nothing to do with elevators.
Shweta Bankar
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